5 Ways to Connect With Your Senior Loved One
Spending time with loved ones is important all year long. Here are some creative suggestions.
1. Postmark your love
Many seniors treasure written correspondence. Remember, postal mail was their way to communicate, not email. Set up a virtual visit to open this mail together and read the messages to each other. This makes it extra special and the notes can be enjoyed again and again.
2. Cook up connections
Discuss meal plans with your parents or grandparents. Ask about their favorite seasonal recipes, then set up a time to cook them together via Zoom or FaceTime. Get the kids in the kitchen, too. If this isn't practical due to restrictions or their abilities, deliver your delicious home-cooked meal right to their doorstep! Include cards or drawings from the grandkids to make it extra special and fun. The whole family can still enjoy the same meal you’re having via a Zoom call or FaceTime.
3. Caring with song and music
Tap into happy family memories by gathering around the phone or computer to sing family favorite songs together. This is a great time to tell family stories, laugh, and enjoy each other's company.
4. Decorate for any season
For many families, decorating for a holiday is a fun tradition. And there is always an upcoming holiday theme to provide inspiration. Reach out virtually for a crafting session to make seasonal favorites. Send the craft supplies to your loved ones directly from online retailers or drop them off ahead of time.
5. Always listen carefully
Communication and active listening are crucial during all get-togethers. It's a time to listen extra carefully and determine if your loved ones are in need of additional care. Keep the conversation lively. If communication stalls, try creative conversation starters. Hearing a loved one’s personal stories can feel like opening a treasured gift, and they will feel appreciated simply because you listened.
Many seniors treasure written correspondence. Remember, postal mail was their way to communicate, not email. Set up a virtual visit to open this mail together and read the messages to each other. This makes it extra special and the notes can be enjoyed again and again.
2. Cook up connections
Discuss meal plans with your parents or grandparents. Ask about their favorite seasonal recipes, then set up a time to cook them together via Zoom or FaceTime. Get the kids in the kitchen, too. If this isn't practical due to restrictions or their abilities, deliver your delicious home-cooked meal right to their doorstep! Include cards or drawings from the grandkids to make it extra special and fun. The whole family can still enjoy the same meal you’re having via a Zoom call or FaceTime.
3. Caring with song and music
Tap into happy family memories by gathering around the phone or computer to sing family favorite songs together. This is a great time to tell family stories, laugh, and enjoy each other's company.
4. Decorate for any season
For many families, decorating for a holiday is a fun tradition. And there is always an upcoming holiday theme to provide inspiration. Reach out virtually for a crafting session to make seasonal favorites. Send the craft supplies to your loved ones directly from online retailers or drop them off ahead of time.
5. Always listen carefully
Communication and active listening are crucial during all get-togethers. It's a time to listen extra carefully and determine if your loved ones are in need of additional care. Keep the conversation lively. If communication stalls, try creative conversation starters. Hearing a loved one’s personal stories can feel like opening a treasured gift, and they will feel appreciated simply because you listened.
